…we say when things look wobbly. But until a real frisson of danger is felt, we’ll just carry on. We carry on trying to do the right thing, trying to be as perfect as we can. And what could be wrong with aiming for perfection? It trails energy, concern and effort, raises the bar and gets that best foot forward. What’s not to like?
But there is an unlikeable aspect. Exclusion.
I saw an example this week. It was all very counter intuitive.
A superbly arranged conference debated ‘Leadership’.
A new report into Global Leadership in the 21st century was the catalyst for the discussion. It’s always tricky to organise groups of people, but there are time-honoured methods that seem to work. So the format was a prestigious panel of speakers, neat seating in accessible rows, a clear timetable – perfect military precision, in fact. (Hurrah for that – it’s good to feel safe, that things aren’t chaotic.)
The form of participation was a Q & A …and some great questions were asked. None seemed to challenge or stretch the speakers, but intelligence was displayed and opinions heard.
In a little crowd later around the coats I found myself talking to a shy young person. The timing was just right and we chatted. She and her colleagues ran a business co-ordinating social media campaigns for big businesses. I asked her about Leadership.
‘We don’t really have that’ she said. ‘ We lead ourselves. I didn’t know how to raise it in there!’
Ah, a successful – leaderless – business.
So if the set up had been more relaxed and less perfection-seeking, we might have heard something radical. We might have had a chance to have all hands on deck for what is looking like an increasingly wobbly time.
From now on, it’s out with believing in perfection, and in with a little unplanned and inclusive chaos.
Perfect timing, of course.