om Lehrer, creator of darkly humourous songs, (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_Lehrer) famously declared ‘satire’ dead when Henry Kissinger won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1973. He said that a place well beyond irony had been reached.
Perhaps it’s happening again.
A group was talking in the café the other day about the patchy wi- fi, which led to grumbling about missed calls, which led to how essential the ‘phone was, which led to discussing cell phone addiction…
There’s an app for that.
There is an app for you for if you are addicted to apps. Its called ‘Break Free’. http://www.breakfree-app.com. It will help you ‘maintain a healthy digital lifestyle’ apparently.
Titter ye not.
Are you sensing a small loss of awareness here? A small loss of a sense of irony?
Loss of irony is a teeny tiny warning sign.
It’s a warning of the imminent loss of being able to see another’s viewpoint.
Deb Gruenfeld, social psychologist from Stanford, studies power in organisations and its effects on our emotional intelligence. In the ‘E’ and ‘Fan’ experiments in 2008 (http://www.cnbc.com/id/25271065/) she and her colleague looked at how participants wrote an ‘E’ on their foreheads after having been primed to feel powerful or less powerful. Those who felt powerful were 3 times more likely to write from their own perspective – ie the letter was backwards/ meaningless to anyone else.
And the participants could see nothing questionable about this at all.
Emotional intelligence, the skills of comprehending and connecting with others, of seeing things from another’s viewpoint, had been corroded by feelings of power.
Back to the app.
So powerful is the power feeling from having an app to solve stuff, that another perspective, a perspective that might be alerted by irony to something going awry, begins to disappear.
Emotional Intelligence? There’s no app for that. There really isn’t.
Penny Hunt is author of ‘Managing resistance to change’ and ‘Support your team through change’ available from Pearson